2.19.2009

Something That's Sure To Shock You: Leisure Gap + Job Loss = Bigger Leisure Gap

Ha! Here's a blast from the past, but with an update for these modern times.

We all remember from our women's studies classes (or in my case, my college boyfriend's roommate's women's studies class) about the leisure gap, right? The findings made by Arlie Hochschild in her 1989 book The Second Shift that in two-income hetero households, in which both partners do equal amounts of paid work, women do the majority of all household and childcare tasks? In case you were wondering, the American Time Use Study, a project of the feds, suggests that is still the case.

But! And here's were the timeliness comes in: "When women are unemployed and looking for a job, the time they spend daily taking care of children nearly doubles. Unemployed men’s child care duties, by contrast, are virtually identical to those of their working counterparts, and they instead spend more time sleeping, watching TV and looking for a job, along with other domestic activities."

And why might this be? John Baruch, a man featured in the Times story who's been out of work since January 2008, is too busy treating job hunting as a full-time job to walk the dog. Which is great in theory, but one, if you're spending 8plus hours solid looking for a job, you are probably doing it wrong--you have time to walk the damn dog. And two, it reflects the relative value placed on men's work versus women's work in way too many U.S. households. It could go one of two ways (though is probably some combination of the two): If the work women did at home was valued by their male partners, men would pick up more of the housekeeping tasks following a layoff when they had more time. Or if women's paid work was valued more by their male partners, they wouldn't be picking up quite so much more housekeeping work during their out-of-work time because they and their partners would be busy attempting to return to the paid work force.

5 comments:

TheWeyrd1 said...

I read a similar article about when men are retired they STILL expect their working wives to do the bulk of the household chores!!! Poo on that idea. One more reason why I'm glad I won't be marrying some guy! But more power to the women who can't help themselves and marry the dudes anyway!

Anonymous said...

my best friend's husband lost his job a few months ago so she's in this position. she was working half time (they have a toddler) but was able to switch to full time work in January. he's done very little to pick up the slack in terms of housework. (he has gotten a little better about childcare so that's good) it makes me crazy but i've stopped giving advice since it's sort of a lost cause.

jlola said...

Don't blame the men- blame the women! I'll be damned if I'm working full time to support a family and my husband is laid off and I come home and the house is filthy and the dinner isn't ready. Woman up!

Anonymous said...

I wonder how many divorces are caused by this or similar issues. Are there any statistics about this?

Anonymous said...

I know I'm late on the game, but I've been unemployed for a little over a month now... I live with my boyfriend and I find that I take on more of the cleaning (no kids), even though I'm still paying half of all expenses (thanks to savings). We actually had a fight about this the other day. I can't believe I of all people have slipped into some sort of traditional gender expectation, with my boyfriend who admittedly loves to clean. But cleaning is the one thing I feel I can control, getting a job I feel out of control. Thanks for this post, its a good reminder of the my priorities.